Praying about a dating relationship
That’s where the following practical suggestions come in.
If you feel that you are not initially attracted to a man who initiates with you, OK — but at least ask yourself why that is.
Are you considering biblical characteristics in that decision?
Guys, don’t wait until you’ve had lunch or dinner or “hung out” one-on-one four or five times before you let her know what’s going on.
The idea is to remove that period of confusion or vulnerability for the woman by being forthright about what level of intention or commitment exists (a la 1 Thessalonians 4).
Let me say it again: We’re trying to make intentions clear, here, not asking anyone to commit to go the distance with no information.