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But the lack of connection was starting to wear on him, and he was certain he knew why.
"I'm only going to date people I already know," he declared and set about reevaluating his attraction to the pool of girls we knew from high school.
Getting in touch with your old friends will remind you of the person you used to be. As adults, most of the people in our lives are mere acquaintances. We sometimes get lost in the illusion that the acquaintances in our lives are actual friends.
While most people become better judges of character with age, they also get lonelier and more desperate with age.
Today he lives with his girlfriend—a girl who, yes, we went to high school with.
After joking with a friend about Oliver's dating plan I started to count the other instances of high school acquaintances getting together with each other only after graduation and could identify almost a dozen. I decided to reach out to a few of these high school friends and find out.
I feel that all the excitement of growing up, of going to high school, then college, then finding a job, makes us lose a lot of valuable connections.