Respond online dating ads rules for dating drama theater
If you try online dating, you likely have questions: The cliché is that women get a ton of messages. I get a lot of messages, but I have no interest in 90% of them. Seriously, if you put anything sexual in an introductory message, I think you’re an asshol E.
The best openers end with a clear question that gets her talking about something specific.“What’s up?
As your conversation goes back-and-forth, keep in mind: your goal is to find commonalities.
I was on a few dating sites a couple years back and here was my experience: I would receive anywhere from 5-50 messages per day.
It gets tiring answering the same questions repeatedly, so the ones I wasn't immediately attracted to would get ignored. The guys would have ambiguous profiles, or have a characteristic I wasn’t looking for.
For instance, single fathers would regularly message me even though the first sentence in my profile said NO FATHERS. I could go on, but my advice would be to be authentic, respectful, polite, and to act as though your grandma were reading your messages.