lose it dating - Cons of dating younger men
It seems whatever age I am (and, spoiler alert: I'm in my thirties now), I've found myself saying "guys my age don't have their shit together." Even when I was on Tinder, I set my minimum age to a couple years older then me because I had no interest in dating younger.
But then I met Ben (name has been changed to protect the overly sensitive).
When you date younger men, it’s like you’re going back in time to yourself at that age, and that’s not always a good thing when it comes to commitment.
Since the imminent break up between a young man and his first love (who by default is searing competition) is typically still fresh, the younger male has a tendency to have lingering thoughts about her.
Sometimes younger guys are still in the stage where they will occasionally still see their exes and reopen that same door to nowhere. Con#2– Let’s face it, the younger you are, the higher the probability is that your relationship won’t last.
While we were together, Ben was a lost little lamb in the woods; scared, full of doubt, directionless.
I remember being a little lamb myself in my mid-twenties.
I’ll end on this note and say that I believe the true worth of a man is not in his age, but in his character, obviously :) And remember everyone, to guard that PRECIOUS heart of yours, because it is without the shadow of a doubt the most valued commodity you have.